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A Diary from Kabul - Diary Events in June & July

28th June

Today has been a very special day. We went on a city tour of Kabul, with our security drivers, with a purpose to orientate ourselves around the city. However, much more than orientation was achieved, as a new world was opened up before our very eyes – the past, present and even future of Afghanistan whizzed by us in the forms of old palaces, buildings ridden with bullet holes, markets and shops complete with vendors and shoppers, all trying to get a good deal and the commercialised section of Kabul modelling fancy new office blocks and massive billboards advertising the latest mobile phone company. It occurred to me today that Kabul is a haven for tourists and has so much to offer, and I hope that one day tourism will flourish in this fascinating city. Among many places we visited, one of the most breathtaking was the tomb of the former king of Afghanistan, Nadir Khan (father of Zahir Shah). Traces of the war between jehadi factions are evident. Although Nadir Khan himself was a criminal and ruthless king, people still suffer from seeing the fundamentalists' destruction of his grave. Many say that these Afghan kings were one thousand times more honorable than the fundamentalists. We then took a drive by Dar-ul-Aman palace in Kabul, which, like many other historical riches of Afghanistan, was heavily damaged during the wars. Anyone wanting a glimpse of what a lawless Afghanistan might look like need only take a drive along Dar-ul-Aman. I have spoken to many Afghans who described to me what the avenue was like many years ago, with its rows of tall, white-stemmed poplars as one of the most beautiful in the world. In the early 1990's, fighting left the road in ruins. Today, there's not a tree in sight.

2nd July

An interesting day at the hospital today. A woman gave birth in the parking lot after just arriving in a taxi cab. I heard there was a commotion going on so I asked one of the midwives to go and assist. After following her, she came running back in with a tiny bundle wrapped in a blanket. Myself and another midwife went outside to help the lady come into the hospital, with a view to getting her into the delivery room to deliver her placenta. After she was wheeled into the delivery room, I was stopped to talk with someone in the corridor, when 2 minutes later this same woman started walking back out of the delivery room, with a midwife following her. Wondering what was going on, I was told this woman did not want to stay in the delivery room to deliver her placenta. She went back outside and despite trying to persuade her otherwise, she was adamant about not going back into the hospital. So, I thought, we would just have to deliver the placenta outside. It was honestly the strangest thing I have ever experienced. One midwife came back with a black bin bag, while the mother got down on the ground to deliver her placenta. So here I was, with another midwife holding up this lady’s burka as a screen so that all of the people coming and going at the entrance of the hospital could not see what was going on! I was told later that this woman had mental difficulties and also that she had left her 1 ½ year old child at home which is why she was so desperate to get back to her house – I went to check on her newborn baby and it surprisingly had no problems at all, so after an ordeal which latest about 20 mins, the woman and her new child were back in a taxi going home….I have come to the conclusion that there are many miracles happening here.

4th July

Another very special day. I have been invited to attend a 3-day workshop about Advocacy and Safe Motherhood, sponsored by the Afghan Midwives Association (AMA) and have been honoured to meet the president of the Association, Pashtun Asfir. Pashtun has been named International Midwife of 2006 and has been the founder of the AMA since its conception in 2004 and has also been a pioneer for midwives all across Afghanistan. To see a room full of Afghan women working hard to define a definition of advocacy and strategies to decrease maternal mortality in Afghanistan has been truly humbling – it has made me feel so proud to be a part of this historic occasion and also made me feel so privileged to be in a room full of woman who, despite facing adversity and despair many times are still wanting and willing to become advocates for a new, brighter Afghanistan. After coming back from the workshop to the house for lunch, we received a phone call that a bomb had exploded outside one of the entrances to the Presidential Palace, which is on our route to work and thus we were not permitted to go back to the hospital in the afternoon. My initial reaction was not fear, but a small loss of hope for the Afghan people – after having been part of a truly inspiring seminar with bright and hopeful Afghan women, the reality of a diminished security had sunk in and I realised that I have never ever had to let a lack of security stand in the way of accomplishing my goals. It was at that moment that I realised how truly fortunate I have been to grow up in a country where I have never had my human rights nor freedom taken away.

5th July

Another two bombs exploded this morning – we learned of the news on the way to another meeting and at lunch were again advised to stay at the house for the afternoon. Whilst I was not worried about my own personal safety, the rumours were swiftly escalating that more bombs were expected over the course of the day. So, another afternoon spent in the safety of the house – we have set up a ping-pong table now so a few games of that were enough to make the time go by!

14th July

Life in Kabul appears to be back to normal – no problems with security and after a few days of restricted movement we were allowed to return to our daily routine. Today I went up to ISAF to play some volleyball – it is turning into an enjoyable weekly event and nice to just be able to wear some shorts and a tank top without worrying about local culture! ISAF is like a home away from home for me – it is nice to visit the compound and see some friendly faces, and seeing the familiar British uniform patrolling the streets of Kabul makes it feel much safer. Local people I have spoken to are all grateful for ISAF being here – I am sure that the media only portrays a small amount of what the coalition forces are achieving, but in reality they are doing so much for the local population in terms of raising money for schools and hospitals and making regular visits to local communities. I am reminded everyday that if it were not for the efforts of ISAF, people like me would not be able to come here and assist in building capacities for Afghans, so that they will one day enjoy the freedom and prosperity that we have all begun to take for granted.

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